My Landlady is driving me insane!!!!

 

 

 

I am one step away from losing my insanity...MY LANDLADY WONT LEAVE ME ALONE!

Everyday she calls me 5-6 times...Who's landlady acts like you are part of their family..But then when rent is due is the first one collecting.

It's not like she calls just to say hello ...(I am not that mean, that wouldnt bother me at all) She always calls to ask me to do something for her.  At the beginning I didnt mind..I would do things for her because I wanted to be nice and it wasnt a big deal, but as time went on it got to a point where basically you can say I was her personal assistant....The tenants thought I was the lanndlord they would knock on my door for any little thing...Basically I rent her apts for her, I take her calls, I post the apr on the websites and I interview prospective tenants, Next I am her errand runner, I go make copies of keys, I collect rent, I buy garbage bags light bulbs whatever is needed for the buildings, Next I am her maid and her son's partime babysitter for his kids....She asked me one day if I could go to her house and clean up because she was having company and she needed a thorough(NO she couldnt do it herself)...Me being the person I am I did it.. On sundays her son who is owner part owner of the house needed a babysitter for a couple of hrs who they asked ME..Mind you they live all the way in Long Island ( about an 1 hr ride away on the railroad) Now you asked do I get payed?? Well let me break it down..TO be her real estate agent I recieved 100.00for each apt that was rented deducted off my rent...Being her personal assistant I recieved NOTHING, just a thank you and every once in while when she came to my house to collect rent she would bring clothes form her closet that she wasnt wearing anymore(like if I was some poor relative) For being her maid  I got payed 30.00 deducted from rent plus she payed train fare...For being her son'sbabysitter for a toddler and newborn for about 4 hrs I received 40.00 deducted from rent and train fare....and I wonder why shes always calling me...

She thinks she is helping me by deducting from the rent but the real reason is she is using me because if she were to pay anyone else she it would be way more..Why do I do it ..Because I considered her my friend in the beginning one friend helping out the other whats the big deal...BUT NOW it's getting ridiculous and I dont know how to stop it..  Just recently she gave her friend my number...                               Basically the friend wants to know if I would be interested in helping her with her little dinner party. Dinner party consists of about 50 people and its in celebration of her new granddaughter...Basically she needs me to serve and the clean up after the party... I say UMMMM (mind is telling me no) Yes, despite that deep inside I dont want (I feel like I have to say yes because she is my landladys friend and I owe it to my landlady) Ok she says I am was thinking about $10 an hr.. I would be there from 2:30 till 8:30 Now ending that up it comes out to about 6 hrs 60 BUCKS.... all of us know nowadays to serve and clean up after a party its way more! plus she says she will pay my train fare ....they dont thnk about the fact that I have to pay a babysitter to watch my kids so what am I staying with?! I feel like an asshole ..these people are seriously taking advantage and me and my dumb ass cant say NO!

My landlady must've told this lady "Ohh I have this tenant who you should call , She's done things for me before and I only had to pay he 10.00 and hr"...What she failed to understand was that I did it because it was for her .. So here I am in agony because next Saturday I have to go do this and everyday she(landlady) tells me "You are not going to disapoint me right?..You still going to do that for my friend right?...You already found a babysitter right?"... I so hate myself right now!

I really have to figure out how to tell my landlady to back off.... The only thing really worthwhile that she has done for me is giving us about a week or two extension on paying the rent.(She is alwys here on the first of the month) Doing this for us she now feels like we are in her hands.... like her little pawns and I am sick of it.. She is one of those people who feel that since they own a couple of building she is rich and we are some poor ass people who need her to bring us clothes and shit like that...WE DON'T NEED THAT I MEAN WE ARE NOT RICH BUT I AM NOT IN NEED OF ANYTHING BESIDES MORE MONEY LOL..AND THAT SHE DOESNT GIVE ME.. I CAN AFFORD TO BUY MY OWN CLOTHES AND I DONT NEED ANYONE LOOKING DOWN ON ME JUST BECAUSE WE HAVE TO WROK FOR OUR MONEY AND JUST BECAUSE ONCE IN AWHILE WE ARE LATE WITH THE RENT! WE ARE NOT EVEN LATE ON THE RENT ITS JUST THAT THIS LADY COMES RIGHT ON THE FIRST OF THE MONTH SHE DOESNT GIVE ANYONE A BREAK! 

The funny thing about it is she goes around telling me and everybody around us that I am her adopted daughter... that she loves me so much....YEA I AM HER DAUGHTER WHO SHE CHARGES 1250.00 FOR A SMALL 2 BEDROOM APT...I AM HER DAUGHTER WHEN I AM SCRUBBING HER TOILETS....HMMM I WONDER IF SHE HAD A DAUGHTER IF SHE WOULD TREAT HER THIS WAY I DONT THINK SOOO!

Don't get me wrong I am not ungrateful at all.... I like to do things for people but c'mon this is to the extreme. 

I don't mean to rant and rave Srrrry LOL....I just needed to vent. I'll figure out something ... I just have to do it without hurting her feelings.......