Where to begin?

 

Well like the subject says where to begin??

Should I begin this first entry on a lil family drama episode that happened yesterday with my ohh so beautiful and sweet mother(Not)

Well my brother's wife just gave birth to thier first baby on Sat Oct 1st.

Everyone is all excited because this is his first child and for me my first blood realtive niece.

So my mother and I made plans to go and see them, mind you they live out in Long Island, But we were going to take the Long Island Rail Road out there.

Well I get a call at about 11:30 that night from my sister telling me to be ready by noon because MY son;s godmother which is my brothers ex girlfriend was going to give them a ride out there.

I was like ohh so plans changed already ..ok whatever the kids and I will be ready... SO her comment is THE KIDS? and I said Yes the kids and she said ohh does mommy know that you are planning to bring the kids.

WTF... So I say well the kids have to go with me because school is out (due to jewish holiday) and there is no one to stay with them, so she says I don't know ....she then goes and tell my mother "ohh did you know that Steph has to bring the kids" and I hear my mother Ohh great why she always has to walk with the kids WTF....they are my kids what the hell is am I going to do... So I tell my sister look I am not going to go into this at 11:30 at night goodbye.

So here I am middle of the damn night all upset AGAIN over something that my mother has done or said.

Anyway I go to sleep.. wake up about 10:00 am and I do what I have to do with the kids all the while waiting to see if they call me to tell me to be ready to go.....11:00 comes and mind you we are supposed to leave at 12:00.... I kept telling myself "I am not going to call I am going to wait for them to call.....11:30 comes and I couldnt hold it in any longer so I texted my mom's phone" Oh so Iguess you decided to leave without me "

Second later phone rings she says"what happened" I tell her so you leaving without me ?..."Did you get someone to watch the kids"..."you know there is no one to watch the kids they have to go with us....So she starts saying ohh but so and so is leaving her kids how do you know she wants to be around yours... I said AND She's leaving her kids good for her but I am not and besides that is their new cousin they want to see her too......So I then tell her well you know what let me call So and SO and see if its ok to bring the kids(mind you I already know my mother is making this up because SO AND SO already texted me and asked me if I was ready to go and after me telling her what was going she couldnt believe that my mom was acting like that.) So my mother starts flipping out cursing and going on and on about why she has to walk with my fing kids and how hse doesnt care if they are her grandkids on and on.then hangs up the phone.....5 mins later she calls me back ohh i just spoke to your brother and he says there are no kids allowed upstairs in the hospital(now I know this another lie ..Cmon I have 3 kids I should know hospital regulation and I have taken them up to see my sis in law and her baby) So I say well let me call him and find out because I find that hard to believe..once again she starts flipping because she knows that she will be caught in another lie... So I call my bro and he says 'Ohh kids are allowed there were kids up here but the nurses were kind of upset because those kids were very loud and runnin around... I was like you know my kids are not like that but you know what give the baby a kiss for I am not going out there today I will see you guys on Friday when I go with Ben (my husband) and MY KIDS!.... So I ended the call.

I was sooooo upset that I texted my mom back and basically told her I was through with her... for her to go have a good time..and when she came home and found herself lonely DO NOt come looking for me or my kids!

Ohh before I forget about an hr later my sister calls and says so are you ready? are you coming?  I was like NOOOO I ain't going! WTF!

My mother must have known she looked wrong so she calls me so of course I will sayno and she can tell everyone ohh you see I told her to come and bring the kids to but she said no.....Yeah I said no after you put me through hell.

I don't know what the hell is her problem she always does shit like this...

For the baby shower I couldnt go because they once again said my kid were not able to go because no children were allowed come to find out there were plenty of children running around.

She doesnt know how much it hurts when she pulls shit like this... ANd this is not the only stuffshe has done but as this journal continues there will plenty of more stories BElIEVE ME!

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Let me end this entry by giving a lil introduction of me and my family.

I am 28 yrs old ..have 3 kids ..10,8 and 6yrs old... been with my husband or shall I say Fiance(Another story)for going on 10 yrs.

We live in New York and if there is anyone out there who is planning on moving here DO NOT!  Rents are freaking outrageaous. I have a small 2 bedroom apt and we pay $1250.00.  My fiance works 10 -12 hrs a day and still cant afford the rent on his own .. So I get government help which pays about 500.00 plus I get foodstamps which are an absolute life saver and No I am not to proud to admit that I get this help.

I work and I reported everything for those of you who are going to be quick to say that I am taking advantage of the system. I am not.

Both fiance and I pay taxes and we do really need the help.

So I am going to go clean up some and then I will be back later to continue my stories. 

I added some pics of my beautiful and respectful children.