X-mas countdown

Ty Got this @ D's Designs..Verrry Cute ...reminds me of my 3 kiddies so I have named them Jonathan, Kaitlyn and Dylan....HEHEHEHE

WEEEEEEEllll I finally got my kiddies gifts..Coudnt believe that in total we spent 700.00!!!! But we got them what they wanted so thats what counts.

My sis in law did do us the favor by letting us use her credit card..so that is a big plus!! TY STEPH(my sis in law is also named Stephanie LOL Funny thing is whenever Ben and I decide to get married we will both be Stephanie Gonzalez.....But I remind her that I am Stephanie #1 LOL

So I am basically done with shopping all I need to do is get a gift card for my mom, and my 2 sisters...OHHH and something for my niece.. I am actually looking forward to Christmas morning now that I got the hard part out of the way. :)

I just found out that my baby niece was admitted in the hospital yesterday :(.... They said she has RSV.. which I only thought preemies could get, But their said that some babies who are born in the winter get this..They have in ICU because she had a fever of 103 and they want to keep a good eye on her since she is just 2 mths.... Thank God her fever went down yesterday and hasnt been back since.... They took some blood and urine to make sure that she has no infections... If she doesn't she may be able to go home tomorrow..SO lets pray everything comes back negative..As for the RSV they said it should clear up on its own. Let's keep our fingers crossed.

Yesterday I made a vegetable lasagna .... it was delicious. I was surprised that the kiddies ate it all...Usually they have a low tolerance for vegetables....BUTTT they loved it!

My other sis in law gave birth by scheduled c-section yesterday.. BABY GIRL..7pd 7 ozs..18 in long... Another girl for them as they already have a baby girl who by the way just turned 1 yr old today...YESSS they are NUTSSS for having another baby so soon..LOL I feel for her..but like I told her all she needs is patience and she will handle it just fine. She is a lil nervous because she says she cant imagine loving another child as much as she loves the first... I told her once she sees the new baby she will fall in love instantly..She is also worried because being that the first baby is only a yr she still requires alot of attention and she doesnt want either child to feel as they are neglected..I told her that once the new baby comes everyone will adjust and it will be fine...She just needs to get the older child used to a schedule that way as one is sleeping she would use that time for the next..... Of course in the beginning it will be hard but its hard regardless of how many children or how far apart they are... Good LUck Steph!

Here in NY it hasnt really been winter... I cant stand it!!! It has been so mild..almost 60 every day.. I love the cold and I am just dying for snow and all that good winter stuff to come... It wont feel like Christmas if its not cold.

HMMM what else is there to write about????? One of my friends is upset at me... She will just have to get over it! The reason why she is upset is because just recently she invited me to her daughter's birthday party that was being held in Chuckies Cheeses.. I kindly turned down the invitation for various reasons.... 1 is that she lives out in Staten Island and it would be a mission for me to get out there and with the recent bout of anxiety that I have been having I am nervous about going to far away from home when its just me and the kids..#2 is that with things being so tight at home there is just no extra money for me to buy a gift right now and I dont want to show up empty handed because its not right..#3 She is my oldest sons godmother and for the past 2 to 3 yrs she has forgotten all about his birthday... now I dont care about the gift but she didnt even call him to wish him a happy birthday so i am upset about that but you know I didnt say anything because its her loss not mine...#4 I really dont agree with this whole party thing becuase for the past yr everytime I talk to her she is crying about how things are sooo tight and she has no money for bills rent or food but then she goes and dishes out a lot of money for a party..Every year she throws a party for each of her daughters birthdays and I dont mean just little house parties I mean renting halls, catering food, and renting a DJ kind of party sooo if she knows that money is sooo very tight then why would she go and throw her money away on a party that herdaughter does not need, for other people to enjoy! Once again I did not say anything because that is her choice but I do not have to partake in it... That way the next time she cries about not having money I dont have to feel like she is throwing it in my face that my kids enjoyed this party and I didnt even get a gift.  When I told her I wasnt going , her response Ok whatever and since that day she has not called me.... OHHH Well you cant please everyone!

My landlady is a piece of work I tell you.... I just got off the phone with her and basically she was telling me that my mother in law doesnt want the job of cleaning the buildings and outside as well as taking out the garbage anymore..... SOO she wanted to know if I was interested in taking over..... I was like OK no problem because it would mean less rent for us to dish out..BUT GET THIS.... She used to pay my mother in law 200.00 a mth but she wants to only pay me 125.00 a mth!!!!! WTF..SHe says its because since its winter and the heating bill is sooo high she needs my rent and she cant afford to lower my rent so much..... WELL NOWW I dont know if I want to do it.. I mean its a lot of work because some people in the bulidings(its 2 houses) are pigs so I would have alot of work when it comes to cleaning the outside and sorting out the garbage which is the main reason why my mother in law no longer wants to do it...WHY should I do the same amount of work for less money....... What do you guys think??? SHOULD I JUST DO IT?????

OHHH well this entry turned out longer than I expected..... Might be back later....... gotta go think about my decision..