Same shit..Different Toilet.....

Here we are , The second of March already..... Time seems to be flying this year. We didn't have much of a winter and now Spring is almost here.

Speaking of Spring today out here in New York its beautiful. The kids and I went to the dentist today. I had to take my older son to get his braces checked. I also wanted to see the dentist because............. ahhhhhh my tooth cracked!! This sucks. I need some work done on my teeth.

We left early this morning. When we left it was pouring , just all around nasty weather. As we came out the dentist office, the sun was shining and it was shining rather brightly. It got me in a good mood.

For nothing upon arriving to my house, my good mood dissipated. Why?? Well once again..I am going to whine about my nasty ass neighbors. I am confronted with garbage all over the place! For goodness sakes there are garbage cans and these people must be blind because for some reason they want to put the bags beside the garbage can! I honesty can not stand this people. I give up. I dont care how this place looks anymore. I am going to tell my landlord that's it. She has to find some  other stupid person to deal with this mess. It' not going to be me anymore!

 

 

Ok enough about that. I still have not made up my mind about what I am going to do with my son. This is such a hard decision for me to make. I got a lot of good advice back from the comments you ladies left. Some of you think I should tell him and then some of you think that he is too young to deal with the truth. I dont know what I am going to do but I am going to put my faith in God and pray that he steer me in the right direction. I am going to have to make up my mind before July though because after that my son will have a different therapist. Lord send me a sign.

 

On another topic.. I am so sick of living with neighbors that have no respect! No this has nothing to do with the garbage. It is about one of my neighbors who feels that he can do whatever he wants because it is part of his culture. Let me explain. I live on the first floor. Below me my landlaord has rented the basement. Now this is illegal because she has not registered it with the city. Anyway my neighbor is a Rastafarian(Jamicain) guy. I dont have a problem with where he comes from. My problem is that he freaking smokes weed all hours of the day. The damnnn smell is already making me sick to my stomach! I dont smoke at all, no cigarrettes, nothing! So why should I have to pay almost 1300.00 dollars in rent to live with this damn smell. It cant be good for me or my kids. Its like all day, everyday. He says he does it because its a part of his culture. Now I dont mind him following his culture or whatever he wants to call it, but if its going to bother others then he needs to find another method! This smell is disgusting! I wake up smelling it and I go to sleep smelling it. It has gotten so bad that when I smell it I actually get nauseous(no I am not pregnant). So now I am going to have to confront him and who knows if he is going to get offended. At this point I dont care if he does though. I have spoken to my landlady about it and all she has to say is that "there is nothing she can do. He pays his rent on time and he is doing it in his apt. Well who cares if he is doing it in his apartment...the freaking smell is coming out of his apartment. SHe doesnt have to live like this. Im sure she wouldnt tolerate it! I swear if worse comes to worse I wll call the Police!

  Woo Hoooo...I can go shopping for food. I got my food stamps and just in time too. I was almost down to nothing. I am going to wait till Ben gets home. Then we will go. We still have not received our Tax Refund checks. I am kind of upset because they charged him 200.00 for rapid refund. It was supposed to get here in 3 days. Its been a week and a day and still no check. I called the lady and she says she thinks that since Ben owed the IRS , that could be why it is taking longer. She said it should get here by next week. I hope so. I want to give this damn lady 2 mth advance of rent so she could leave me the hell alone already. I am sick of her calling me every beginning of the month to remind me as if I didn't know....

 

Guess what??? I did my own Myspace page!!! Yea I know..I finally joined the rest of the world lol. It seems like everyone I talk to has one. So now I HAVE one.:))))) It looks soo nice.. Feel free to go visit and make sure you leavc me a comment lol... Here's the link...    www.myspace.com/domesticgoddesses28  I got a myspce, I got a myspace..yea yea yea lol

Well let me get out of here lol...I might be back later... Hope my friends are having a great week so far!